You Are Invited To Experience Love

If I hear with my ears, I’ll imagine.
If I see with my eyes, I’ll conceptualize.
If I experience with my soul, I’ll understand.

Experiencing Divine Love is the most profound of human experiences. It is the holy grail of awakening and originates from beyond our human consciousness. Its energy is the life-force inherent within everyone, uniquely reflecting itself as our soul. When we experience the energy of absolute love within us, our hearts melt and we fall in love. It is our reciprocal love that completes the circle.

Hidden in plain sight is the simplest of spiritual insights – we can experience the essence of Divine Love through our soul if we seek it with all our heart.  The Spiritual Archaeologist guides us toward this experience and provides us a way to discover and heal the hidden layers of pain and limited perceptions covering our visceral experience of Divine Love.

The Dig” shows us how to heal these layers of emotional pain and limited false perceptions which constrict our experience of the energy of Divine Love within our human consciousness. The Dig becomes a way of life that brings our human consciousness into balance and harmony with our own soul and alignment with Divine Love.

This book was born out of such experiences of Divine Love. It shows us how to live emotionally pain free lives and how to see the presence of Divine Love within our own soul. You are invited to experience Divine Love, to understand the human condition and then fall in love with it all.


Robert Bigelow & Marcy Heller

You Are Loved Unconditionally

Welcome to The Spiritual Archaeologist.

As you step into the possibility of experiencing Divine Love through the removal of layers of pain and false perceptions, please know that Divine Love is unconditional. No matter what pain or behavior exists in our lives, Divine Love is the sacred space of unconditional love for us, always.

How Divine Love Responds to Us.

Divine Love’s response to a sincere heart is immediate and causes the universe to conspire with us as it removes every layer that hinders the expression of Divine Love within us.

Divine Love has but one response when we genuinely seek it, it causes itself to be found. The energy of Divine Love opens the eyes of our soul to see beyond our humanity into the depth and completeness of this love. It causes all our character defects and faults to disintegrate one by one and turns any heart of stone into a heart of love.

The Transformative Power of Divine Love.

When genuinely sought, the power of Divine Love causes everything that does not originate from love to disintegrate. Every desire we hold dear becomes fulfilled through the energy of Divine Love whether we physically receive the manifestations of our desires or not. We awaken to see that all along it was our deepest heart’s desire is to return to the presence of Divine Love as a reality in our lives. Divine Love is the only source of power capable of transforming us into its likeness.

The Dig Guides Us.

The Dig begins by revealing the layers of emotional pain closest to the surface within our lives. With unconditional love, The Dig guides us down the path of personal self-discovery to uncover the pains buried underneath our fear, anger, behaviors and reactions to people. It will guide us all the way down into to the roots of our pains and reveal a simple awakening; that emotional pain is the perceived absence of the energy of Divine Love.

How to See Divine Love.

The reason we have not already seen Divine Love may be a simple eye opening truth – it is because we have not been seeking it nor have we been asking to see it. As humans, we seek a thousand things other than the essence of Divine Love. Getting our heart to fall in love with seeing Divine Love is not the same as devotion to a spiritual path or religion. Our very own consciousness is the issue and it cannot fix itself. The solution to this must come from the spiritual realm, not the human. That is why we must ask, to reach beyond the power of our own minds in order to see and experience the essence of Divine Love. Love promises a response to anyone who genuinely seeks.

Experiencing our true existence as a spiritual entity changes how we perceive the human life. Once we experience the presence of Divine Love from outside the vantage point of the human construct, the veil that shrouds our human consciousness is lifted (for a moment) and we are allowed to see our true selves – a spirit (soul), fully connected to and flowing the energy of Divine Love while temporarily housed within a physical body. The key is to seek with the fullness of our heart.


Our Task is to Ask.

Our task is to genuinely ask to experience the presence of Divine Love within us that we may live a life filled with the inner knowing of the presence of Divine Love within us. When we understand the source of pure love originates from beyond our own minds, then we will let go of the egoic illusion that our human minds have the power and capacity to transform itself into Divine Love. We will no longer be concerned about spiritually polishing up our humanity through acts and thoughts that may appear to arise from a genuine spiritual place within us but are actually the mental and emotional attempt to put on the garments and form of our concept of spirituality.

Divine Love is the only power in our universe that has the ability to transform us into itself on a soul level, from the inside out. It is the only power with the ability to open our minds, enabling us to experience and feel the presence of Divine Love within our soul. It is the only power capable of truly transforming our layers of deep emotional pains into the energy of itself, Divine Love.

This is why we ask instead of trying to attain through human effort.


How to Begin.

Exactly as we are. Regardless of our life’s circumstances, we can begin The Spiritual Archaeologist knowing that all humans are equals in the eyes of Divine Love. None are more worthy of divine connection than another.

The presence of Divine Love may start as a concept in our mind, but as we dig through the layers, concept slowly turns into experience. We discover that our genuine spirituality does not lie within objects or teachings outside ourselves but that the kingdom of Divine Love is the reality that lies within, veiled beneath the limited vision of our human psyche. It is a part of us and the foundation of our physical existence.

Divine Love emanates love regardless of our response. If we have adopted a humanized version of Divine Love that gets angry or punishes us out of disdain for our actions, then this is a limited perception that we should allow love to open our minds to deeper understanding. Otherwise, our own mind blocks us from seeking. Fear will cause the stall of any positive response to love. If we are looking at Divine Love with fear or anger, we are only seeing the reflection of our own pain. If we do a dig on our fear and anger, we will discover that our false perceptions are based on emotional pain, which is not feeling the presence of love.

So, we turn our focus inward as we start our journey and look toward removing all that hinders the flow of Divine Love.

My ears had heard of Divine Love,
but now I have experienced it.

The Dig

Self-Discovery is Always the Best:

The dig is a five phase process that creates change through revelation-oriented self-discovery. The Spiritual Archaeologist uses the dig in order to access the power of Divine Love to transform pain into love and false perceptions into clarity.

A Personal Experience

The dig is the personal experience of discovering hidden emotional pain stuck inside ourselves and then transforming the energy of that pain into the energy of love. When this happens, we enjoy the relief from the pain and experience the increased awareness of Divine Love within ourselves. Eventually, experiencing love becomes a way of life.

Because the dig is an experience, any suggested technique to navigate it should be considered like the handrail of a set of stairs. We use the handrail while we are developing our balance, but keep our focus on the experience rather than the technique or practice. We always remember that the power to walk up the stairs is not within the handrail, it is the life-force within the person that supplies the energy to ascend the stairs.

The Intent

The intention of the dig is the personal experience of the Divine Love that exists within us and to become this love in increasing measure. We don’t want to just uncover pain but want to turn the emotional pain into love. No matter our beliefs, spiritual path or life’s circumstances, we can all equally begin this journey by doing one dig at a time.

The removal of the hidden layers of pain and false perceptions begins to reveal an entirely different experience of life, one of peace and love. We begin to feel unconditional love as a way of life rather than reacting to our pain unconsciously. Our thoughts, behaviors and situations begin to change as we are transformed from the inside out.

When each of the five phases of a dig is fully experienced, the result is tremendous and truly inspiring to watch.

When is it Time to Dig? When We:

  • Have a negative reaction to a person or situation.
  • Are aware of a specific emotional pain stuck inside us.
  • Wish to expand our perception into Divine Love’s insight.
  • Desire clarity on which direction to go in a life’s situation.
  • Are stuck in any area of our life.

Dig Partners

Until such time when the Divine Love can become our conscious Dig Partner, we will need another person to fill that role. We use the term Dig Partner purposely as opposed to mentor, leader, guru, teacher or any one of the many similar roles a person can play in our lives. Dig Partners are not responsible for our transformation nor should they feel that type of pressure.  Deep spiritual growth and connection is based on Divine Love, not a human being.

Therefore, a Spiritual Archaeologist Dig Partner’s primary purpose is to hold sacred space of unconditional love for another during their dig. If we are in a group setting, everyone not doing a dig hold sacred space for the one(s) who are. As we take on this role, we are relieved of the responsibility of fixing another. Instead, we sustain the important role of holding the energy of sacred space and unconditional love for another knowing the same will be done for us.

For The Spiritual Archaeologist, the profound shift in perception naturally results when the energy of Divine Love begins to reveal itself within our Conscious and Unconscious Mind. This is the Divine awakening throug self-discovery and happens when we seek it.

The Journey Map and The Dig both invoke deep shifts in perception at the energetic level, prior to thought and action. We are not just answering questions to obtain mental understanding, we are waiting for the “The Shift” in perception regarding the question.

Dig Partners withhold all feedback during The Dig, allowing the person to enjoy the experience of self-discovery through Divine energy. Thus we learn to trust the Divine Love to change another rather than our all inspiring insight and wisdom.

When two go walking the other can help him up.
Whoever walks alone has no-one to help him up.
The Divine strand of three cords is not easily broken.

The Tree of Pain Life Cycle

A full explanation of The Tree of Pain Life Cycle can be found within the book.

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The Spiritual Archaeologist

With unconditional love as our tool, we Dig through layers of pain and false perceptions to discover Divine Love is within us.

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